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		<title>Leave Some Ideas Behind - iChat!</title>
		<link rel="alternate" href="http://melra.com/2007/10/16/leave-some-ideas-behind--ichat.aspx" />
		<id>tag:melra.com,2007-10-16:0375cd06-bc44-4bd8-925c-9ce28c8eb308</id>
		<author>
			<name>Mehul</name>
		</author>
		<category term="Work" />
		<category term="Technology" />
		<updated>2007-10-17T00:08:58Z</updated>
		<published>2007-10-16T23:53:00Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[<div></div>Apple recently announced the upcoming arrival of Mac OS X - Leopard with 300+ features. There is no more shock value of Apple inventing new stuff well ahead of its rival up in Redmond. We are so used to it now. Yet, there is always something small, a nifty feature here and there where some amazing amount of detail has been incorporated that catches my eye. This time it's the <a href="http://www.apple.com/macosx/features/ichat.html" target="_blank"> iChat</a> application. With video backdrops, photo booth effects, real-time collaboration features like keynote preso sharing, recording of audio AND video chats (so that you can play it on your ipod - on the go, the site says with much humility) - is there anything left for other IM/video clients to aspire to? Apple, please leave something behind for others to dream up too. Its a bad idea to have a monopoly on all the good ideas!<br><br>A decade or so back - I was the only nerd in my engineering school (back home in India) to own a Mac. My friends used to ridicule me on all the usual stereotypes that surrounded the Macintosh. However, I had seen the potential in Apple long back...it was just hard to explain clearly back then. Now that Apple is a behemoth and everyone has an ipod or an iphone, that ridicule is long gone. I've also lost my chance and motivation to tell everyone "see I told you so..."<br>]]></content>
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	<entry>
		<title>The Tide is Turning...</title>
		<link rel="alternate" href="http://melra.com/2007/10/16/the-tide-is-turning.aspx" />
		<id>tag:melra.com,2007-10-16:a7d61994-a052-4d73-b301-8e0f8fa2f137</id>
		<author>
			<name>Mehul</name>
		</author>
		<category term="India" />
		<updated>2007-10-16T23:33:27Z</updated>
		<published>2007-10-16T23:29:00Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[<div></div>I came across this news post that immediately caught my attention - "Indian Consulates in United States Begin Outsourcing Visa Collection and Delivery"...<br><br>The United States is India’s largest trade partner and leading foreign investor. On October 1, 2007, all Indian consulates in the United States began outsourcing their visa collection and delivery. In a statement issued by Mr. Ronen Sen, Ambassador of India, the unprecedented growing demand for Indian visas as well as inquiries into visa application status have resulted in their decision to turn to an outsourcing provider.<br>]]></content>
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	<entry>
		<title>Plea for Compassion and Humanity to Animals</title>
		<link rel="alternate" href="http://melra.com/2007/03/18/plea-for-compassion-and-humanity-to-animals.aspx" />
		<id>tag:melra.com,2007-03-18:3965c780-0659-4fe8-9bcc-d36a7c019258</id>
		<author>
			<name>Ramya</name>
		</author>
		<category term="Earth" />
		<category term="Society" />
		<category term="Eco-Friendly" />
		<category term="United States" />
		<category term="World Affairs" />
		<category term="Pets" />
		<updated>2007-03-18T19:43:00Z</updated>
		<published>2007-03-18T19:43:00Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[<P>The Earth is a mother for human beings, animals and nature. There are many reasons for me and my family to be strict vegetarians. Some are religious, some are ethical. My reasons are primarily ethical. </P>
<P>What we choose to eat makes a potent statement about our ethics and our view of the world -- about our very humanity. Whenever we choose not to buy meat, and eggs, we withdraw our support from cruelty to animals, undertake an economic boycott of factory farms, and support the production of vegetarian foods. </P>
<P>Regardless of any other beliefs we hold and however else we choose to lead our lives, each of us can decide to act with kindness and empathy. Making humane choices is the ultimate affirmation of our humanity and compassion. Ultimately, living with compassion means striving to maximize the good we accomplish.&nbsp; It is all very easy to say that individuals must wrestle with their consciences--but only if their consciences are awake and informed. I feel that industrial societies today hide animals’ suffering. For modern animal agriculture, the less the consumer knows about what’s happening before the meat hits their plate, the better.</P>
<P>Is this an ethical battle? Should we be reluctant to let people know what really goes on?</P>
<P>Generally when I speak to meat-eaters about this topic, I used to tell them that there are two counters to the human vs. other predator comparison: humans know that their actions cause pain and suffering (although there is a tendency toward denial), and humans have a choice between eating plants and animals (many predators do not). Of course the answers that I get back are that humans are allowed to participate in the ecosystem just as wolves or cats would. </P>
<P>But there is big difference between a band of hunter gatherers and modern human civilization. We have moved outside of any natural position in the Earth's ecosystem. Yes, in the Earth’s naturally existing eco-system, some animals will die as prey of their predators, but they have the opportunity to survive and flourish based on their skill and luck, not to mention how spectacularly hearty and different their environment is, when they are in their original natural surroundings.&nbsp; They are obviously the most happy in that natural eco-system where they are supposed to be!</P>
<P>Today Cows, sheep, pigs, chickens, turkeys, and fish have no choice but to live a fore-ordained course from birth to the dinner plate.&nbsp; They are quartered, bred, and slaughtered for food in ways that are strikingly different from their natural lives. They live their entire lives in slavery, without any chance of a natural life; their existence is often miserable, amounting to torture; and then they are killed. The lack of opportunity; opportunity to compete, breed, evolve and express themselves - things that they would have done in their natural habitat is unacceptable!</P>
<P>They are fed growth hormones so that they grow unnaturally fast and fat. They are fed food that they would not naturally eat (e.g. herbivores are fed slaughterhouse remains). Pigs and chickens are raised in metal cages their entire lives; in some cases they grow large enough that their bodies strain the wire mesh of the cages. Male chicks are thrown in plastic bags when they hatch and smothered because only a few roosters are needed; female chickens are debeaked without the use of painkillers. Cows are kept pregnant most of the time for their milk; their calves do not receive their milk, but are fed less nutritious substitutes, kept crated and chained for immobility, and then killed and sold as veal. Fish are nearly extinct in the oceans as the result of over fishing.</P>
<P>A PLEA TO YOU:&nbsp; The immeasurable suffering of animals today can be most effectively diminished whenever people stop eating meat or stop supporting any other causes that would augment their suffering/killing. I and my entire family invite you to help us help the animals and put an end to their suffering.&nbsp; Please also visit <A href="http://www.meat.org">www.meat.org</A>.&nbsp; It has a very graphical and emotionally disturbing video but will really put into perspective all what I am talking about.</P>]]></content>
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	<entry>
		<title>Fun Trip to Snowy Soda Springs</title>
		<link rel="alternate" href="http://melra.com/2007/02/20/fun-trip-to-snowy-soda-springs.aspx" />
		<id>tag:melra.com,2007-02-20:883f694a-0a85-4935-8dc2-abd2909a4ae9</id>
		<author>
			<name>Mehul</name>
		</author>
		<category term="Holidays" />
		<category term="United States" />
		<category term="Home Stuff" />
		<category term="Nivi" />
		<updated>2007-03-23T09:23:56Z</updated>
		<published>2007-02-20T20:11:00Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[We took Nivi on a ski trip to Soda Springs up in the Sierra Nevada valley. Her friends Sadhavi and Sneha accompanied us, with folks of course. It was such a blast! The kids went nuts playing with the snow! We couldnt even stop Nivi from eating a handful of the fresh powder...


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	<entry>
		<title>Does Anyone Notice the C-130s in Sunnyvale?</title>
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		<author>
			<name>Mehul</name>
		</author>
		<category term="Technology" />
		<category term="United States" />
		<updated>2007-03-19T17:12:03Z</updated>
		<published>2007-02-10T16:23:00Z</published>
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<p class="MsoNormal">I've been observing the daily sorties of the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/C-130_Hercules">C-130s</a> taking off from the
Moffett airfield for sometime now. But does anyone else in <st1:city w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Sunnyvale</st1:place></st1:city>
notice? I recently asked a few people if they ever noticed the hulky cargo/bomber
fly overhead...and most of them say no! ??? These giant 4 propeller planes have
been circling over the <st1:city w:st="on">Sunnyvale</st1:city> and <st1:city w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Mountain View</st1:place></st1:city> skies for
the past many years and surprisingly no one seems to notice. How do people miss observing a plane (the size of a decent sized multi-storey building) fly above them? Even Ramya and Nivi notice it every time.<br></p><p class="MsoNormal"></p><center><img src="http://app.onlinequickblog.com/images/38991-36011/C130.jpg"></center><br><p></p><p class="MsoNormal">Sometimes they fly so
low that you can almost touch them, especially if you are on 237 next to the Sunnyvale golf
course. No kidding! I've been to the old Sunnyvale Mall to see the C-130s up
and close...what an awesome sight to behold when they pass literally a few meters
above you.<span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>

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	<entry>
		<title>Very Funny but True!</title>
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		<id>tag:melra.com,2006-11-27:d12d8b92-2fa6-49ca-8281-776ff9709533</id>
		<author>
			<name>Mehul</name>
		</author>
		<category term="Work" />
		<category term="India" />
		<category term="Cartoons" />
		<category term="United States" />
		<updated>2006-11-27T14:16:09Z</updated>
		<published>2006-11-27T14:07:00Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[<center><img src="http://melra.com/images/38991-36011/Asok_American_Sayings.jpg"></center><br>]]></content>
	</entry>
	<entry>
		<title>USC - Stanford Football Game</title>
		<link rel="alternate" href="http://melra.com/2006/11/04/usc--stanford-football-game.aspx" />
		<id>tag:melra.com,2006-11-04:4446cb2e-560a-4739-903e-7d1ce3daba83</id>
		<author>
			<name>Mehul</name>
		</author>
		<category term="Sports" />
		<updated>2006-12-09T18:04:13Z</updated>
		<published>2006-11-04T15:02:00Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[<CENTER><IMG src="http://melra.com/images/38991-36011/USC_Stanford.jpg"></CENTER><BR>Irfan and I attended a great football game between USC and Stanford. Well, it was great, but very one sided. USC won 42-0! It was a great experience to watch the game live in a really cool, newly built Cardinal stadium. Read all about this <A href="http://sports.yahoo.com/ncaaf/recap?gid=200611040063">game</A>.<BR><BR><BR>]]></content>
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	<entry>
		<title>Coming Closer to Real-Collaboration</title>
		<link rel="alternate" href="http://melra.com/2006/10/09/coming-closer-to-realcollaboration.aspx" />
		<id>tag:melra.com,2006-10-09:f4b506c4-6804-4c19-b201-b9e6b170c001</id>
		<author>
			<name>Mehul</name>
		</author>
		<category term="Technology" />
		<category term="Work" />
		<updated>2006-12-09T18:11:01Z</updated>
		<published>2006-10-09T15:28:00Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[Despite significant advances in peripheral devices like webcams and audio head-sets, real-time collaboration is not close to being real. It's not entirely surprising - the bar is still quite high in terms of what the user is expected to do in order to have a good audio/video conversation. There are many issues beyond the user's primary control - bandwidth, network latency, incompatible or insufficient system setups, poorly designed and expensive devices, background noise etc.<BR><BR>Apple has figured out one solution using its <A href="http://www.apple.com/macosx/features/ichat/">iChat</A> software. Offer a full featured audio and video experience only if ALL participants in the conference meet ALL the requirements. For starters, everyone needs to have at least a G3 Mac! If participating in video, everyone needs to have an <A href="http://www.apple.com/isight/">iSight camera</A> (most Macs now have it built in). Take a look at the requirements. Of-course it will work! Given that Apple's core clientele (albeit very small) is comprised of high end consumers who demand the best, this high bar of setup requirements is not much of a problem and works for them.<BR><BR><A class="" href="http://www.hp.com/" target=_blank>HP</A> has recently introduced a new tool called '<A href="http://www.hp.com/halo/index.html">Halo</A>' which is considered a breakthrough in virtual conferencing. This new tool allows remote teams to "meet" in a half-virtual, half-physical room. Developed by special-effects wizards at DreamWorks Animation SKG (the studio behind Shrek) and HP, the Halo "studios" are used by Pepsico, Procter &amp; Gamble, and Novartis, among others. The eerily realistic system allows for more frequent collaborations, reduces travel costs, and increases productivity.<BR><BR>
<CENTER></CENTER>But is there a tool for the masses? I think that one that does stand out (in current and relative terms) is <A href="http://www.adobe.com/products/breeze/">Macromedia Breeze</A>. Macromedia (now Adobe) has done a wonderful job of integrating the various conferencing ‘channels’ – audio, video, presentations, polling, text chat, white-boarding, attendee management, meeting recording etc. Breeze also takes care of audio mixing. I’d highly recommend everyone to try out this application. On the consumer end, both <A href="http://messenger.yahoo.com/">Yahoo!</A> and <A href="http://get.live.com/messenger/overview">MSN</A> have brought high-quality audio-video communication to the masses. Their recent <A href="http://messenger.yahoo.com/feat_interop.php">interop announcement</A> bridges two huge networks at the text-messaging level.<BR><BR>I hope to see the following trends in the near future that will help lower the bar on RTC.<BR>
<UL>
<LI>PC companies will take a cue from Apple and do tighter device integration with their hardware. 
<LI>Broadband adoption will continue to rise. This will make bandwidth a non-issue. 
<LI>New RTC related standards (like the <A href="http://collaboration.mitre.org/">DOD’s ISWG</A>) will emerge that will compel vendors to interop at some level. It may start with messaging and will work its way up.</LI></UL>]]></content>
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	<entry>
		<title>Giddy over GPS</title>
		<link rel="alternate" href="http://melra.com/2006/09/28/giddy-over-gps.aspx" />
		<id>tag:melra.com,2006-09-28:fed35078-00bf-4dac-a8f8-d5bcded2fe35</id>
		<author>
			<name>Mehul</name>
		</author>
		<category term="Technology" />
		<category term="Earth" />
		<category term="United States" />
		<category term="Home Stuff" />
		<updated>2006-09-28T13:17:00Z</updated>
		<published>2006-09-28T13:17:00Z</published>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;">I recently
got a new GPS device as a gift from Ramya. The gadget is the new <a href="http://www.garmin.com/">Garmin</a> <a href="http://www.garmin.com/products/spi3/">i3</a>
which is a small, portable GPS instrument that computes map data off a 256 MB
Flash chip. The software that comes bundled along with the i3 allows users to
download custom maps on the chip via a standard USB cable. <o:p></o:p></span></p>



<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;">Before this
acquisition, I have used <a href="https://www.hertz.com">Hertz’s</a> popular <a href="http://hertzneverlost.com/">Neverlost</a> many times. In <a href="http://www.hertz.com">Hertz</a> rental
cars, the <a href="http://hertzneverlost.com/">Neverlost</a> system is usually located right next to the gear shifter
and is a tad bit hard to look at. But it has a big screen and makes up for the inconvenience.
The i3 can be positioned anywhere on the car’s windshield or the dashboard. I
really would like to position it on the windshield, but <st1:City w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Cali</st1:place></st1:City> law prohibits any driver from hooking it
on the windshield…so for now I just keep it in the cup holder. The screen is a
bit small – but the clear audible prompts make it a non-issue. Assuming you are
attentive enough to the prompts, there is no real need to look at the screen.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><center><img src="http://melra.com/images/38991-36011/Garmin_I3.jpg"></center><br><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>



<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;">Each time I
use the GPS – it amazes and delights me! This wonderful invention offers ultra convenience
of not carrying paper based maps in the car anymore. Not to mention the amount
of clutter, printer ink and paper it saves. It also offers a great deal of spontaneity
on the road which otherwise would not be possible - unless one is familiar with
the area being cruised around. Besides the fact that some satellite many miles
up is having an active downlink to the little device gets me giddy each time I
think about it!<o:p></o:p></span></p>

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	</entry>
	<entry>
		<title>Play Time at Las Palmas Park</title>
		<link rel="alternate" href="http://melra.com/2006/09/27/play-time-at-las-palmas-park.aspx" />
		<id>tag:melra.com,2006-09-27:ecab707d-0222-4e3f-9a49-77ab534ec362</id>
		<author>
			<name>Mehul</name>
		</author>
		<category term="Home Stuff" />
		<category term="Nivi" />
		<updated>2006-11-01T13:56:10Z</updated>
		<published>2006-09-27T11:00:00Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;">Thanks to
our friend Manish, we discovered a great children park called <st1:city w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Las Palmas</st1:place></st1:city> – right off Hollenbeck and
Mathilda! We’ve been in <st1:city w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Sunnyvale</st1:place></st1:city>
for many years and had not known of this park in the area. Gaurav and Nivi had
such a blast – playing off the slides, the tunnels, swings and the oversized
wooden jumpers. Hopefully, we will frequent this park more often.<o:p></o:p></span></p>

<center><img src="http://melra.com/images/38991-36011/Las_Palmas_Sept06.jpg">
</center><br>]]></content>
	</entry>
	<entry>
		<title>Looking for Eco-Friendly Fiber Shoes?</title>
		<link rel="alternate" href="http://melra.com/2006/09/21/looking-for-ecofriendly-fiber-shoes.aspx" />
		<id>tag:melra.com,2006-09-21:19152bd2-2ab2-4ce7-bb22-0ab5c8215e93</id>
		<author>
			<name>Mehul</name>
		</author>
		<category term="India" />
		<category term="Earth" />
		<category term="Eco-Friendly" />
		<updated>2006-09-21T10:49:38Z</updated>
		<published>2006-09-21T10:26:00Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[<font size="3"><font size="2">Looking for Eco-Friendly Fiber Shoes? Are you looking for the original <a href="http://www.rageshmastercrafts.com">Melra.com</a>? Check out the revamped <a href="http://www.rageshmastercrafts.com">Ragesh Mastercrafts</a> site! Ragesh Mastercrafts specializes in manufacture and export of hand plaited leather products like shoe uppers, leather panels, handbags, belts, embroidery and crochet items and eco friendly fiber footwear.</font><br><br><center><img src="http://melra.com/images/38991-36011/Ragesh.jpg"></center><br><br></font>]]></content>
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	<entry>
		<title>Fun at Avila Beach!</title>
		<link rel="alternate" href="http://melra.com/2006/09/09/fun-at-avila-beach.aspx" />
		<id>tag:melra.com,2006-09-09:51f79153-265d-4726-bf54-e6451030f907</id>
		<author>
			<name>Ramya</name>
		</author>
		<category term="Holidays" />
		<category term="Nivi" />
		<updated>2006-09-13T13:21:36Z</updated>
		<published>2006-09-09T21:13:00Z</published>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;">After Labor Day, the holidays seem to approach us faster and faster, YIPEE! Can you believe that another year is almost over? <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;">We just returned from our amazing trip to the <st1:city w:st="on">Avila</st1:city> beach in <st1:city w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">San Luis Obispo</st1:place></st1:city>.<span style="">&nbsp; </span>About half way between San Francisco <span style="">&nbsp;</span>and Los Angeles – and about half way between a wilderness beach and the frenetic shores of, say, Orange County – we found an idyllic little stretch of sand that was certainly worth spending a few days at. We relaxed and rejuvenated at this popular beach by strolling pier, sun worshiping, building sand tunnels with Nivi and just letting her get frenzied at the toddler park nearby.<span style="">&nbsp; </span><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;">We made one fun visit to <st1:city w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">Avila</st1:place></st1:city> barn which had lots of farm animals – the kind Mehul can easily bond with! Hehe. All three of us went gaga and fed them lots of corn leaves. Next day we dropped into a really awesome apple orchard close to <st1:place w:st="on"><st1:city w:st="on">Avila</st1:city></st1:place>. Though we weren’t supposed to pluck any…we went ahead anyway! I bought some sweet and some tart apples to take back home.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;"><o:p>&nbsp;</o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial;">While we were there, we also made a point of visiting the downtown area of <st1:city w:st="on"><st1:place w:st="on">San Luis Obispo</st1:place></st1:city> and found an excellent selection of shops and outdoor cafes, yet a homely feel that made for a comfortable afternoon of browsing and exploring especially with a firecracker kid like Nivi! Other places we managed to check out during the 4 day outing were – Pismo beach, Shell beach, Oceano and more. What a memorable vacation!<br><br><o:p><img src="http://melra.com/images/38991-36011/Avila_Apples.jpg"></o:p></span></p>]]></content>
	</entry>
	<entry>
		<title>Now Sit, Now Stand, Now Twirl. And do a little dance for me!</title>
		<link rel="alternate" href="http://melra.com/2006/07/18/now-sit-now-stand-now-twirl-and-do-a-little-dance-for-me.aspx" />
		<id>tag:melra.com,2006-07-18:c5237498-4f06-4d3c-bdf4-c1ee25de1464</id>
		<author>
			<name>Mehul</name>
		</author>
		<category term="Society" />
		<updated>2006-07-18T17:06:00Z</updated>
		<published>2006-07-18T17:06:00Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[This one totally cracked me up. Rum forwarded this to me during one of the busy days at work and it turned out to be such a great stress reliver. I recommend reading the full article. Please forward this on to everyone (who's married!).<br><br><center><img src="http://melra.com/images/38991-36011/Shamu.jpg"></center><br><br>What Shamu Taught Me About a Happy Marriage.<br><br>Original article by Amy Sutherland.<br><br>AS I wash dishes at the kitchen sink, my husband paces behind me, irritated. "Have you seen my keys?" he snarls, then huffs out a loud sigh and stomps from the room with our dog, Dixie, at his heels, anxious over her favorite human's upset.<br><br>In the past I would have been right behind Dixie. I would have turned off the faucet and joined the hunt while trying to soothe my husband with bromides like, "Don't worry, they'll turn up." But that only made him angrier, and a simple case of missing keys soon would become a full-blown angst-ridden drama starring the two of us and our poor nervous dog.<br><br>Now, I focus on the wet dish in my hands. I don't turn around. I don't say a word. I'm using a technique I learned from a dolphin trainer.<br><br>I love my husband. He's well read, adventurous and does a hysterical rendition of a northern Vermont accent that still cracks me up after 12 years of marriage.<br><br>But he also tends to be forgetful, and is often tardy and mercurial. He hovers around me in the kitchen asking if I read this or that piece in The New Yorker when I'm trying to concentrate on the simmering pans. He leaves wadded tissues in his wake. He suffers from serious bouts of spousal deafness but never fails to hear me when I mutter to myself on the other side of the house. "What did you say?" he'll shout.<br><br>These minor annoyances are not the stuff of separation and divorce, but in sum they began to dull my love for Scott. I wanted - needed - to nudge him a little closer to perfect, to make him into a mate who might annoy me a little less, who wouldn't keep me waiting at restaurants, a mate who would be easier to love.<br><br>So, like many wives before me, I ignored a library of advice books and set about improving him. By nagging, of course, which only made his behavior worse: he'd drive faster instead of slower; shave less frequently, not more; and leave his reeking bike garb on the bedroom floor longer than ever.<br><br>We went to a counselor to smooth the edges off our marriage. She didn't understand what we were doing there and complimented us repeatedly on how well we communicated. I gave up. I guessed she was right - our union was better than most - and resigned myself to stretches of slow-boil resentment and occasional sarcasm.<br><br>Then something magical happened. For a book I was writing about a school for exotic animal trainers, I started commuting from Maine to California, where I spent my days watching students do the seemingly impossible: teaching hyenas to pirouette on command, cougars to offer their paws for a nail clipping, and baboons to skateboard.<br><br>I listened, rapt, as professional trainers explained how they taught dolphins to flip and elephants to paint. Eventually it hit me that the same techniques might work on that stubborn but lovable species, the American husband.<br><br>The central lesson I learned from exotic animal trainers is that I should reward behavior I like and ignore behavior I don't. After all, you don't get a sea lion to balance a ball on the end of its nose by nagging. The same goes for the American husband.<br><br>Back in Maine, I began thanking Scott if he threw one dirty shirt into the hamper. If he threw in two, I'd kiss him. Meanwhile, I would step over any soiled clothes on the floor without one sharp word, though I did sometimes kick them under the bed. But as he basked in my appreciation, the piles became smaller.<br><br>I was using what trainers call "approximations," rewarding the small steps toward learning a whole new behavior. You can't expect a baboon to learn to flip on command in one session, just as you can't expect an American husband to begin regularly picking up his dirty socks by praising him once for picking up a single sock. With the baboon you first reward a hop, then a bigger hop, then an even bigger hop. With Scott the husband, I began to praise every small act every time: if he drove just a mile an hour slower, tossed one pair of shorts into the hamper, or was on time for anything.<br><br>I also began to analyze my husband the way a trainer considers an exotic animal. Enlightened trainers learn all they can about a species, from anatomy to social structure, to understand how it thinks, what it likes and dislikes, what comes easily to it and what doesn't. For example, an elephant is a herd animal, so it responds to hierarchy. It cannot jump, but can stand on its head. It is a vegetarian.<br><br>The exotic animal known as Scott is a loner, but an alpha male. So hierarchy matters, but being in a group doesn't so much. He has the balance of a gymnast, but moves slowly, especially when getting dressed. Skiing comes naturally, but being on time does not. He's an omnivore, and what a trainer would call food-driven.<br><br>Once I started thinking this way, I couldn't stop. At the school in California, I'd be scribbling notes on how to walk an emu or have a wolf accept you as a pack member, but I'd be thinking, "I can't wait to try this on Scott."<br><br>On a field trip with the students, I listened to a professional trainer describe how he had taught African crested cranes to stop landing on his head and shoulders. He did this by training the leggy birds to land on mats on the ground. This, he explained, is what is called an "incompatible behavior," a simple but brilliant concept.<br><br>Rather than teach the cranes to stop landing on him, the trainer taught the birds something else, a behavior that would make the undesirable behavior impossible. The birds couldn't alight on the mats and his head simultaneously.<br><br>At home, I came up with incompatible behaviors for Scott to keep him from crowding me while I cooked. To lure him away from the stove, I piled up parsley for him to chop or cheese for him to grate at the other end of the kitchen island. Or I'd set out a bowl of chips and salsa across the room. Soon I'd done it: no more Scott hovering around me while I cooked.<br><br>I followed the students to SeaWorld San Diego, where a dolphin trainer introduced me to least reinforcing syndrome (L. R. S.). When a dolphin does something wrong, the trainer doesn't respond in any way. He stands still for a few beats, careful not to look at the dolphin, and then returns to work. The idea is that any response, positive or negative, fuels a behavior. If a behavior provokes no response, it typically dies away.<br><br>In the margins of my notes I wrote, "Try on Scott!"<br><br>It was only a matter of time before he was again tearing around the house searching for his keys, at which point I said nothing and kept at what I was doing. It took a lot of discipline to maintain my calm, but results were immediate and stunning. His temper fell far shy of its usual pitch and then waned like a fast-moving storm. I felt as if I should throw him a mackerel.<br><br>Now he's at it again; I hear him banging a closet door shut, rustling through papers on a chest in the front hall and thumping upstairs. At the sink, I hold steady. Then, sure enough, all goes quiet. A moment later, he walks into the kitchen, keys in hand, and says calmly, "Found them."<br><br>Without turning, I call out, "Great, see you later."<br><br>Off he goes with our much-calmed pup.<br><br>After two years of exotic animal training, my marriage is far smoother, my husband much easier to love. I used to take his faults personally; his dirty clothes on the floor were an affront, a symbol of how he didn't care enough about me. But thinking of my husband as an exotic species gave me the distance I needed to consider our differences more objectively.<br><br>I adopted the trainers' motto: "It's never the animal's fault." When my training attempts failed, I didn't blame Scott. Rather, I brainstormed new strategies, thought up more incompatible behaviors and used smaller approximations. I dissected my own behavior, considered how my actions might inadvertently fuel his. I also accepted that some behaviors were too entrenched, too instinctive to train away. You can't stop a badger from digging, and you can't stop my husband from losing his wallet and keys.<br><br>PROFESSIONALS talk of animals that understand training so well they eventually use it back on the trainer. My animal did the same. When the training techniques worked so beautifully, I couldn't resist telling my husband what I was up to. He wasn't offended, just amused. As I explained the techniques and terminology, he soaked it up. Far more than I realized.<br><br>Last fall, firmly in middle age, I learned that I needed braces. They were not only humiliating, but also excruciating. For weeks my gums, teeth, jaw and sinuses throbbed. I complained frequently and loudly. Scott assured me that I would become used to all the metal in my mouth. I did not.<br><br>One morning, as I launched into yet another tirade about how uncomfortable I was, Scott just looked at me blankly. He didn't say a word or acknowledge my rant in any way, not even with a nod.<br><br>I quickly ran out of steam and started to walk away. Then I realized what was happening, and I turned and asked, "Are you giving me an L. R. S.?" Silence. "You are, aren't you?"<br><br>He finally smiled, but his L. R. S. has already done the trick. He'd begun to train me, the American wife.]]></content>
	</entry>
	<entry>
		<title>India Inc!</title>
		<link rel="alternate" href="http://melra.com/2006/07/13/india-inc.aspx" />
		<id>tag:melra.com,2006-07-13:5ad6a707-4e2e-474d-8a54-5fb09ccba564</id>
		<author>
			<name>Mehul</name>
		</author>
		<category term="India" />
		<category term="World Affairs" />
		<updated>2006-07-13T16:54:00Z</updated>
		<published>2006-07-13T16:54:00Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[Finally India makes it to the Time magazine cover - not for earthquakes, humanitarian disasters, spiritual nonsense, Deepak Chopra, BJP/Hindu extremist antics, nuclear arms race against Pakistan, tsunamis, poverty etc! This must be some surreal moment...I must live it to the fullest extent! Here, catch the original article from <a href="http://www.time.com/time/archive/preview/0,10987,1205374,00.html" target="_blank">Time Magazine</a href>.<br><br><center><img src="http://melra.com/images/38991-36011/India_Inc.jpg"></center><br><br>India Awakens: Fueled by high-octane growth, the world's largest democracy is becoming a global power. Why the world will never be the same.<br><br>Original article from Time Magazine by Michael Elliott. Published - June 26, 2006.<br><br>Even if you have never gone to India--never wrapped your food in a piping-hot naan or had your eyeballs singed by a Bollywood spectacular--there is a good chance you encounter some piece of it every day of your life. It might be the place you call (although you don't know it) if your luggage is lost on a connecting flight, or the guys to whom your company has outsourced its data processing. Every night, young radiologists in Bangalore read CT scans e-mailed to them by emergency-room doctors in the U.S. Few modern Americans are surprised to find that their dentist or lawyer is of Indian origin, or are shocked to hear how vital Indians have been to California's high-tech industry. In ways big and small, Indians are changing the world.<br><br>That's possible because India--the second most populous nation in the world, and projected to be by 2015 the most populous--is itself being transformed. Writers like to attach catchy tags to nations, which is why you have read plenty about the rise of Asian tigers and the Chinese dragon. Now here comes the elephant. India's economy is growing more than 8% a year, and the country is modernizing so fast that old friends are bewildered by the changes that occurred between visits. The economic boom is taking place at a time when the U.S. and India are forging new ties. During the cold war, relations between New Delhi and Washington were frosty at best, as India cozied up to the Soviet Union and successive U.S. Administrations armed and supported India's regional rival, Pakistan. But in a breathtaking shift, the Bush Administration in 2004 declared India a strategic partner and proposed a bilateral deal (presently stalled in Congress) to share nuclear know-how. After decades when it hardly registered in the political or public consciousness, India is on the U.S. mental map.<br><br>Among policymakers in Washington, the new approach can be explained simply: India is the un-China. One Asian giant is run by a Communist Party that increasingly appeals to nationalism as a way of legitimating its power. The other is the largest democracy the world has ever seen. The U.S. will always have to deal with China, but it has learned that doing so is never easy: China bristles too much with old resentments at the hands of the West. India is no pushover either (try suggesting in New Delhi that outsiders might usefully broker a deal with Pakistan about Kashmir, the disputed territory over which the two countries have fought three wars), but democrats are easier to talk to than communist apparatchiks. Making friends with India is a good way for the U.S. to hedge its Asia bet.<br><br>Democracy aside, there is a second way in which India is the un-China--and it's not to India's credit. In most measures of modernization, China is way ahead. Last year per capita income in India was $3,300; in China it was $6,800. Prosperity and progress haven't touched many of the nearly 650,000 villages where more than two-thirds of India's population lives. Backbreaking, empty-stomach poverty, which China has been tackling successfully for decades, is still all too common in India. Education for women--the key driver of China's rise to become the workshop of the world--lags terribly in India. The nation has more people with HIV/AIDS than any other in the world, but until recently the Indian government was in a disgraceful state of denial about the epidemic. Transportation networks and electrical grids, which are crucial to industrial development and job creation, are so dilapidated that it will take many years to modernize them.<br><br>Yet the litany of India's comparative shortcomings omits a fundamental truth: China started first. China's key economic reforms took shape in the late 1970s, India's not until the early 1990s. But India is younger and freer than China. Many of its companies are already innovative world beaters. India is playing catch-up, for sure, but it has the skills, the people and the sort of hustle and dynamism that Americans respect, to do so. It deserves the new notice it has got in the U.S. We're all about to discover: this elephant can dance.]]></content>
	</entry>
	<entry>
		<title>Parenting with Love and Logic</title>
		<link rel="alternate" href="http://melra.com/2006/06/20/parenting-with-love-and-logic.aspx" />
		<id>tag:melra.com,2006-06-20:0afe283d-3428-4a28-8b64-f984de614e83</id>
		<author>
			<name>Ramya</name>
		</author>
		<category term="Nivi" />
		<updated>2006-06-20T17:35:00Z</updated>
		<published>2006-06-20T17:35:00Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[<P><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">Ever thought about what parenting is like? Of course it is the most heavenly experience one can ever encounter.&nbsp; But as parents of a highly-charged and inquisitively sharp young toddler, my husband and I have renounced our normal lives!&nbsp; We cruise behind her all day long. All of a sudden I watch Barney more than I think I should and have recited Ba Ba Black Sheep more than I can ever remember in my entire life!! But the toddler age is the most mystical time I think for both Nivi and us - I'll never again have such a rich opportunity to make her giggle with so much exhilaration on just an ordinary game like peek-a-boo. <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P><EM><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">Such a treasure our precious Nivi is,</SPAN></EM><I><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">Who will thrive on every hug and kiss.</SPAN></EM><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">We want to hold her close and sing her songs,</SPAN></EM><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">For she will only be a child so long.</SPAN></EM></SPAN></I><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">I know that as parents we are like a beacon guiding her all along which makes me nervous.&nbsp; In all my modesty I sometimes wonder am I the best role model for her?&nbsp; I am not sure, but I know for sure that I will do my very best to love her boundlessly, share stories about courage, kindness, humor and determination and then let her explore her own identity! I will always promise to hold her but not hold on to her as parenting is a continual process of letting go, a series of gains and losses metered out over months and years. At least, that's been my experience so far.&nbsp; I came across a beautiful poem on how our kids absorb so much from parents and would like to share it. <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">To Every Parent:<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P><EM><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">There are little eyes upon you, </SPAN></EM><I><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">And they are watching night and day; </SPAN></EM><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">There are little ears that quickly take </SPAN></EM><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">In every word you say; </SPAN></EM><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">There are little hands all eager to do </SPAN></EM><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">Everything you do, </SPAN></EM><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">And a little child who's dreaming of </SPAN></EM><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">The day she'll be like you.</SPAN></EM></SPAN></I><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P><EM><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">You're the little child's idol, </SPAN></EM><I><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">You're the wisest of the wise, </SPAN></EM><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">In her little mind about you, </SPAN></EM><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">No suspicions ever rise; </SPAN></EM><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">she believes in you devoutly, </SPAN></EM><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">Holds all you say and do; </SPAN></EM><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">she will say and do in your way when </SPAN></EM><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">she's grown up to be like you. </SPAN></EM></SPAN></I><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P><EM><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">There's a wide eyed little child who </SPAN></EM><I><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">Believes you're always right, </SPAN></EM><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">And her ears are always open and she </SPAN></EM><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">Watches day and night; </SPAN></EM><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">You are setting an example </SPAN></EM><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">Everyday in all you do </SPAN></EM><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">For the little child who's waiting </SPAN></EM><BR><EM><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">To grow up to be like you.</SPAN></EM></SPAN></I><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
<P><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">Author Unknown</SPAN></P>]]></content>
	</entry>
	<entry>
		<title>Tea and Coffee Euphoria</title>
		<link rel="alternate" href="http://melra.com/2006/06/16/tea-and-coffee-euphoria.aspx" />
		<id>tag:melra.com,2006-06-16:5e036a31-caf7-4fbb-963d-b801fc3ed8f2</id>
		<author>
			<name>Ramya</name>
		</author>
		<category term="Food Snippets" />
		<updated>2006-09-11T10:40:21Z</updated>
		<published>2006-06-16T15:18:00Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>As a little girl, when I was raised in Chennai, I used to really love coffee.&nbsp; If my mom did not keep me a large cup of the aromatic and stimulating decoction coffee ready in the morning, I would just bring the roof down!!&nbsp; There are probably millions out there for who the day does not start with out their first cup of coffee. I used to be one of them. Coffee brings back so many memories for me of my mom, dad, Chennai the simple life there that used to start with this delicious beverage.&nbsp; As time went by and I came here to settle in the US, I started having an aversion to the way coffee is consumed here in the US. Its lackluster way of preparation (without adequate milk and sugar), the dark blends available here along with the high amounts of caffeine that it had just deterred me from coffee and switching to tea instead.</p>
<p>
<center><img src="http://melra.com/images/38991-36011/ChaiTea.jpg"></center> 
<br><br>Tea or rather ‘Chai’ is a popular Indian hot drink that is basically a spiced black tea.&nbsp; The recipes for chai vary quite a bit.&nbsp;&nbsp; Most chai recipes use a blend of cloves, ginger, cardamom, and peppercorn.&nbsp;&nbsp; The result is a very unique and stimulating flavor.&nbsp; The word ‘chai’ actually just means tea in several eastern languages.&nbsp; ‘Masala’ means spice so masala chai to Indians simply means ‘spiced tea’.&nbsp; Evidence seems to suggest that chai became popular during the English colonial period of India’s history.&nbsp;&nbsp; I make chai with sugar, milk and some cardamom and ginger.&nbsp; Just boil all the ingredients together. The milk, sugar, water, spices and tea, are all boiled together at the same time, then the liquid is strained afterwards.&nbsp; 
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<p>So, while tea drinking is embellished with great ceremony in such places as India, China, and Great Britain, I think that in the more hurrying culture of the U.S., tea is viewed as just another beverage. Americans drink mostly iced tea. And as you would have guessed, the brew is much less popular than soft drinks, beer, coffee, milk, fruit beverages, or bottled water.&nbsp; I want to raise awareness that drinking tea-hot or iced-may be an easy, pleasurable way to get some serious health benefits. A number of recent studies add support to earlier findings about the benefits of tea and reveal some possible new ones. The evidence for those benefits is strongest for green tea.</p>
<p>Some obvious benefits include,</p>
<ul>
<li>Stronger bones 
</li><li>Healthier heart 
</li><li>Improved arteries 
</li><li>Cancer fighter</li></ul>
<p>Me and my husband now love Indian tea and drink a lot of it.&nbsp;&nbsp; At the same time I would like to throw some light on green tea.&nbsp; The several health benefits of green tea have been attributed to the antioxidants it contains, which are largely destroyed when green tea leaves are processed to produce black tea.&nbsp;&nbsp; </p>
<p>Okay, let me backtrack here.&nbsp; There are three types of tea Black, Oolong, and Green tea. The difference between the Green tea and the others is that green tea is not fermented, thus keeping in the powerful antioxidants lost in the fermenting process.&nbsp; Sometimes I just sip Green tea all day at work and enjoy that experience equally as our Indian chai.&nbsp; </p>
<p><strong>Summing Up</strong></p>
<p>Tea components clearly influence many cellular functions. Green tea contains a higher concentration of, and resulting protective effect from polyphenols than fermented black or partially fermented oolong teas.&nbsp; But nevertheless, evidence of tea’s beneficial properties continues to accumulate. We should consider tea as an important part of a healthful diet.<br></p>]]></content>
	</entry>
	<entry>
		<title>My Galaxy Quest</title>
		<link rel="alternate" href="http://melra.com/2006/06/12/my-galaxy-quest.aspx" />
		<id>tag:melra.com,2006-06-12:f29e4744-1ee0-4f1f-81db-f1c5739b3f76</id>
		<author>
			<name>Ramya</name>
		</author>
		<category term="Cosmos" />
		<updated>2006-06-12T15:15:00Z</updated>
		<published>2006-06-12T15:15:00Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[<P>The night sky has always been a source of my endless wonder and speculation. It is the origin of innumerable number of myths, legends and other stories. Yet while the number of ideas and answers to the mystery of the sky is unfathomable, so is the number of stars out there.</P>
<P>When I was a little girl, I always used to do star gazing with my dad. I only saw a small amount of stars (which can be seen by the naked eye). In fact it is an amount so small that it is a comparable to a handful of sand on the beach. While the exact number can't be known just yet, many estimates have been given. Most of them, with the exception of the Sun, are trillions of miles away and because they are so far, they seem to us like little specks of light, but in actuality they can be millions of miles wide in diameter. Stars are located in galaxies, but a galaxy contains more than just stars. Clouds of dust and gas, called nebulae, are where stars are born.</P>
<P>In our galaxy alone, the Milky Way, there is a predicted 3 billion to 100 billion stars. So while the stories and myths live on about the night sky, the exact number of stars is still not known, as space is truly and absolutely the final frontier.</P>
<P>"The simple truth is that interstellar distances will not fit into the human imagination."</P>
<P>There you have it -- space is big, probably too big for us to be messing around in its dark expanses. Nonetheless, authors and filmmakers have devised countless adventures that take place far from our world. In many of these stories, the sheer bigness of it all doesn't seem to present a great obstacle to travelers. No one has much trouble getting across the universe in the Star Wars or Star Trek movies, what with modern conveniences like warp drives and light speed. Teleportation devices are also handy, provided you don't go in the pod at the same time as an insect. </P>
<P>Is there a humbling religious perspective on the exploration of outer space? What about the questions that drive our imaginations - the possibility of life on other planets -- even to consider going there? What about other questions involving our comprehension of the immensity of the universe and humanity's tiny place in it? The universe to me is profoundly humbling, and the vastness of the creation a testimony to the infinite power and majesty of the one who called it into being. This sense of our smallness and God's unlimited magnificence is important for us to realize.</P>]]></content>
	</entry>
	<entry>
		<title>Bimmer Bimmer</title>
		<link rel="alternate" href="http://melra.com/2006/05/15/bimmer-bimmer.aspx" />
		<id>tag:melra.com,2006-05-15:9c926ce7-b4dc-4933-8e65-661386894baf</id>
		<author>
			<name>Mehul</name>
		</author>
		<category term="Home Stuff" />
		<updated>2006-09-13T09:44:53Z</updated>
		<published>2006-05-15T09:34:00Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[<img src="http://melra.com/images/38991-36011/BMW_1.jpg"><br><br>
<img src="http://melra.com/images/38991-36011/BMW_2.jpg"><br><br>
<img src="http://melra.com/images/38991-36011/BMW_3.jpg"><br>]]></content>
	</entry>
	<entry>
		<title>Thoughts about Nivi!</title>
		<link rel="alternate" href="http://melra.com/2006/05/01/thoughts-about-nivi.aspx" />
		<id>tag:melra.com,2006-05-01:a391eb5a-456d-4e45-8f35-094684ec02d6</id>
		<author>
			<name>Ramya</name>
		</author>
		<category term="Nivi" />
		<updated>2006-05-01T15:05:00Z</updated>
		<published>2006-05-01T15:05:00Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[Having my baby was the smartest thing I've ever done. She is such a little sponge who has come into the world with a clean, shiny slate and such pureness. I love her too much!]]></content>
	</entry>
	<entry>
		<title>Spellaroo Anyone?</title>
		<link rel="alternate" href="http://melra.com/2006/03/29/spellaroo-anyone.aspx" />
		<id>tag:melra.com,2006-03-29:20fffdcd-09d4-44ec-91d1-a8e410128a06</id>
		<author>
			<name>Mehul</name>
		</author>
		<category term="Technology" />
		<updated>2006-03-29T16:51:00Z</updated>
		<published>2006-03-29T16:51:00Z</published>
		<content type="html"><![CDATA[Juggling between multiple IM windows has never been much of a problem for me. But of late, I have noticed that while I try to type fast in all the windows I am messaging in - I make many spelling errors with words that I can spell just fien - obvious typos! So I have been looking for some Messenger add-on that can help me auto-correct as I type. I came across <a href="http://www.spellaroo.com/">Spellaroo</a> which seems promising. So if anyone has tried it, please let me know how it is.]]></content>
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